Has it been a while?

These last 6 months or so have left many of us discombobulated!* And I’m sure that I’m not the only one for whom “it’s been a while!”

*isn’t this a funny word for being upset or confused?

It’s been a while… since I cleaned out my truck and got the outside washed, but I did that last week and it looked good for a couple of days, even though I have to park it outside. (I should enjoy a clean truck more often.)

It’s been a while… since I slept in, but I just might do that tomorrow.

It’s been a while… since I “pruned” my computer, removing out-dated names, websites, or old favorites but… since I had to replace my laptop last week, guess what I have been doing!

It’s been a while… since I called, emailed, or sent a hand-written note just to say “Hello” so today’s the day!

Has it been a while since you treated yourself as worthy of…

• a nap?
• an escape into a good book?
• a delightfully sinful piece of chocolate?

(If you know me, you know these are some of my favorite gifts to myself!)

As we enjoy the beginning of fall and prepare for the remainder of the year that’s left, it’s time to do more of the things we love to do and to do less of the things we don’t like.

So more reading, knitting, napping…

And what will you do from your “it’s been a while” list?

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